http://www.gearwire.com/bass-guitars-for-women.html
reading this article on basses for women. Has she thought of using a Hofner bass? or a copy of one? They have smaller necks and play and sound a bit more like an electric guitar. Weight should be less than most basses. They look classy and have a legacy. Ibanez makes and Ice Bass which I believe is light in weight in slim in neck as well.
Any other thoughts?